Selectively Juggling

Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you? Let’s face it, adulting is hard. We’re not given a manual on how to parent, adult or succeed in life. We’re not given a manual on how to strike that perfect balance between work and play. It’s more a case of intuiting our…

Are you a good judge of character? I believe that I am a good judge of character, both within my personal and professional roles. My work requires exemplary communication and observation skills. I’m extremely strong with pattern recognition, both with things and people’s actions, reactions, choices, voices and mannerisms. Therefore I’m not easily fooled because…

How are you creative? Yesterday I stood on my enclosed veranda (back porch, patio) I was completely transfixed by the sight of my abundant garden (even after many hot weeks of summer) I watched as the giant sunflowers basked in streams of sunlight. I delighted in the sounds of birds as they busied themselves with…

You get to build your perfect space for reading and writing. What’s it like? It would be a greenhouse type building with a high glass atrium. The glass walls will have a UV film on them which prevents harsh sunlight. I will have hundreds of lush plants, some hanging in macrame hangers and pots, others…

What are your biggest challenges? My biggest challenge is me. I’m like a bull out of a gate, charging forth on some dopamine quest. I set goals and start out well, but somewhere along the way I lose focus and consistency.

What makes you feel nostalgic? Personally I experience feelings, thoughts and sensations of nostalgia whenever one or more of my senses are triggered with a memory provoking stimuli . For example music is a huge trigger for me, it acts like an immediate teleportation or time travel machine. I can be fully engaged in the…

What relationships have a positive impact on you? All relationships can inadvertently have a positive impact on the way I see myself, respond to stimuli and act (obviously within reason). As the 8th child of 10 children I have experienced the whole range of personality types within my immediate family, from loving and compassionate siblings…

Beach or mountains? Which do you prefer? Why? My dream landscape is a mix of both. It includes rich alluvial flood plains framing the mouth of a river as it feeds into the sea. It is flanked by white sandy beaches, pristine and devoid of human life or waste. Clear topaz blue water laps rhythmically…

What was your favourite subject in school? It’s a shame that others didn’t take note of what wannabe dictators and fascists did throughout history. It’s a shame others didn’t remember or pay respects to the lessons of the past, and vote accordingly. No, now future generations will look at this period of history, shake their…

What’s something you believe everyone should know. That they are worthy of genuine love and respect (okay not wannabe racist misogynistic fascist dictators – if you know who I mean) Everyone should know that self-love and self-compassion are crucial, especially when we are called to be caregivers for loved ones who may have additional needs.…