Selectively Juggling

I’m the 8th child of ten children. My immediate family served as an almost complete microcosm of society. I had/have siblings ranging from incredibly supportive and compassionate, right through to abusive and narcissistic. I guess that’s just the luck of the draw.

Reflecting upon what a family member has done in terms of a “positive thing” , it would be remiss of me not to mention my youngest sister and her consistent loyalty and love. She is one of a select few who represent a safe, genuine and generous place, where I can completely be me, warts and all. I can completely unmask, exposing my vulnerabilities and sensibilities. She never judges me, but will definitely challenge me. That is priceless! And in return I provide that safe place for her, a place where she can feel seen, loved and valued.